Or, was it the producer…I get them confused…

Seems everyone’s throwing stones, and following ‘that lead.’

Might as well bang your own head on a rock, don’t you think?

I was all fired up then the fire went out, it’s just sad, really…

No one is great, no one is perfect…

LOL

Cat if I may call you that,
Though we have not talked in depth on this saga nor do we agree on alot. I have to say your post was unbelievable….. This is something I agree with you on. I believe if two people love each other and are comited to one another they dont need this type of…..is behavior the right word?
I also believe someones personal choices are just that personal. They should keep it that way, but if you choose not to then you cant turn around and lie about it because to me you are not being truthful to your self.
Bless your husband for standing by you through it all. The good,the bad, sickness and in health. Now that thats a REAL Man.

BamaCat…you’re a real human being, LOL.

What more can I sat since I don’t know you personally.

Sure would be nice if we were all good, what a wonderful world this would be, don’t you think?

Sure is a shame about Daniel.

I was almost a Daniel, I think…

Never that good, though.

Still think that ‘men’ could do a better job ‘running’ this world.

Of course, there will always be some that just want to blow themselves up…

Yet, if ‘WE’ could make them not, or prevent them from hurting others wouldn’t that be great!!!

“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.”

Is it true?

I still don’t like Marshall or Hefner, or Hitler, or ‘BANKS.’

“THE LOVE OF MONEY? OR IS THE LOVE OF SOMETHING ELSE…MAYBE POWER OR RESPECT OR”

So was Howard the evil?

Did he assist Anna with her ‘Marilyn Monroe’ wish?

Seems there’s a good woman behind every man…

so, is there a ‘man’ behind every good woman?

Reminds me of those Clintons and Kennedy’s and the rest of our government, and other governments…

Sure wish they’d ‘teach’ birth control…

Just basic Biology and Math, since we’re all too, stupid to know the rest, I think.

Or maybe just not quite good enough?

Sex is the last thing on my mind, much less getting hung from some of the BDSM contraptions, getting my ass flogged or sitting in a corner all day. I have enough pain to deal with in my everyday life without having more inflected by someone who supposedly “loves” me. Some of the BDSM rituals are life threatening already so add to that a health issue & it should double or triple the danger. So to me it would be plain nuts to engage in it. Is her doctor aware of the dangers she exposes herself to?

My hubby of 28 years literally has had to help bathe me, wash my hair, help me to my bedside potty, and give me my shots & meds. At times when I have bad spells he has had to even wipe my ass. He cooks, cleans house, does laundry AND holds down a full time job. He has had tears in his eyes many times & told me if he could take my pain away & endure it himself he gladly would. And you know what? He has shown by his actions that I truly know that he would if he could. Now that is REAL love & that is a REAL man.

Sometimes I feel guilty about what he has to go through but he reminds me that I carried the load before he retired from the military. I raised our two children alone sometimes in a foreign country & held the fort down while he was in the field for months at a time. But that I always greeted him w/ “Welcome Home” banners & home cooking for all the soldiers to enjoy when they returned on post & waited to turn in their weapons to go home. And I took care of him when he gave his father a kidney to save his life. He had complications & nearly died himself but I never left his side. So he says now is the time for him to return the favor.

Someone’s sexual lifestyle choice is one thing but harping about being on their death bed while engaging in BDSM shows that someone has no respect to want to inflect addition pain to someone they supposedly “love”. And obviously the person on the “receiving” end has no self respect to allow it. This is my own opinion & perhaps my own upbringing but I was taught to honor & respect my spouse and expect the same in return.

Hello everyone. I would like to point out a link that has nothing to do with any religion but with a lifestyle that is really sick. I guess some people never read the bible about Sodom and Gomorrah
Nelda says that THIS is her religion.

Thanks Cat for this little peek inside the minds of demented people… HKS/BS aligned themselves with this. Oops, tried to warn them….Anna Nicole Smith thought S&M people are freaks!

Also notable that so much has been removed from the BDSM site. Don’t let yourselves be fooled. Here is a little taste of Nelda’s morality.
http://bamacatart.blogspot.com/2008/05/bdsm-fundraiser-scheduled.html

Also, if demeaning women and making slaves out of them is your thing…well…
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I have a question. Can you or anyone please tell me just how it is that anyone who is supposed to be ‘terminally ill’ and confined to a wheelchair can also be into or performing this kind of SICK lifestyle? I just don’t get it!

I mean, not just like thinking about it or maybe watching, reading or whatever…but to actually perform? Give me a break…something stinks about the whole thing and the ‘story line’ that’s been fed to everyone before the BDSM crap came up.

I can tell you for sure that IF I was terminally ill and confined to a wheelchair, this kind of BS filth is the LAST thing that would be in my world!

Can anyone help me out here with seeing how that is possible because I am having a huge problem with it!

BTW QV, Thank You again for the path you’ve chosen and for being you. Whatever else happens, always be assured that you made the right choice and you will be rewarded 10 fold one day. :)