John OQuinn Obituary And Final Funeral Arrangements

by QV on 11/03/2009

in John O'Quinn, O'Quinn Law Firm

JOHN M. O’QUINN

Mr_OQuinn_obitJOHN M. O’QUINN, dedicated and extremely successful trial lawyer, generous benefactor, and devoted friend to those who loved him, has ended his earthly journey far too soon. John’s journey was always exciting because he demanded so much of himself. Born on the 4th of September 1941, he passed away Thursday, the 29th of October 2009.

John spent his professional life as a powerful advocate for the powerless – he was the courtroom champion of the ordinary person. He seemed bigger than life with his dynamic personality and folksy presence, which cleverly masked a giant intellect. He believed that the courtroom was the great common denominator: this was where each person was truly equal.

John was the “difference maker” in so many major cases. He considered the courtroom much like the athlete considers the playing field. John took each and every case seriously and personally. As the “people’s champion,” even those who opposed him in court soon realized his unflinching commitment to his clients, and that even they were enhanced by his presence. Each client was unique; each case special.

John was very much the home-town boy – he loved the city of Houston which helped create his legendary skills: both were robust, confident, extremely successful, with an unyielding attitude. Recognized publicly as a legal icon, he was named one of the 100 Legal Legends of the Law by the Texas Lawyer and recognized by the National Law Journal and Harvard Law Review as one of the Best Lawyers in America, receiving four of the largest verdicts in Texas legal history.

An honors graduate of the University of Houston Law Center, he served as a Regent for the University of Houston, as well as a trustee of the UH Law School Foundation. He truly loved the UH Law School and all UH athletic activities. John used his fame and fortune to assist not only the University of Houston with the John O’Quinn Law Library and the John O’Quinn Field at Robertson Stadium, but also the Children’s Assessment Center, the Women’s Center, Baylor College of Medicine, the End Hunger Network, St. Luke’s Episcopal Hospital, the South Texas College of Law Advocacy Center, and so many more endeavors of equal importance.

He was a man who was determined to give back to the city, which had been so very good to him. He once said, “The only things you get to take with you are those things you give away.”

But despite the public persona, John O’Quinn was also a very complicated private person. He seemed as if he were a walking contradiction. Few people knew the John O’Quinn who helped so many when no one else would. Not many knew of the wonderful friendship he shared with the few people who saw this private manifestation of his generous nature. The private John O’Quinn was the first to answer the call when a friend was in need, and he was loved by his classmates at the UH Law Center. From this class developed a strong bond between John and his contemporaries – Alvin Zimmerman, Jack Raines, Al Levin, and especially this writer, Gerald Treece. He was a friend to all of us and he is already being missed more than any of us can truly express.

The private John O’Quinn faced many demons. He fought them with the same zeal he approached the courtroom. John was a proud member of the 12-Step Fellowship, a group known as the “Motley Crew.” Only one woman was invited into this group, Darla Lexington, and together with these men, the group helped one another to fight the monster called alcoholism. John’s friends made him stronger and he them. His sobriety was nearing eleven years. He truly loved these guys.

Standing by his side was Darla Lexington, the love of his life. They shared a passion for philanthropy, the arts, and classic cars. Their dream was to build an automotive history museum in Houston and Darla intends to build that legacy in John’s name. They escaped to their beautiful ranch in Wimberley, Texas whenever they could and planned to retire there. John also deeply cared for Darla’s daughter, Michelle Coopwood, and referred to her as his daughter. John also leaves behind his beloved aunt, Ruth O’Quinn, and cousin, Carol O’Quinn, his extended famil, as well as many dear friends.

Darla, along with the guidance of Dr. Ed Young and others at Second Baptist, helped John on his journey to find his spiritual self. We can all rejoice that John found peace, and that he knows the full love of God, which is forever.

A writer to the Houston Chronicle, responding to the news of John’s death, wrote, “JMO was a brilliant attorney. He was a generous soul. The last samurai warrior. A real gunslinger. JMO championed the causes of the nameless and faceless individuals who did not have the means to challenge the mammoth defendants. UH has lost its son. Houston has lost its friend. The world has lost a generous soul….He loved hard work. He was a dedicated man.

“Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from four o’clock in the afternoon until eight o’clock in the evening on Tuesday, the 3rd of November, at Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston.

So as to provide for more seating accommodations during the funeral service, kindly note the below change of venue at Second Baptist Church, from the Sanctuary to the Worship Center, accessible from Voss Road.

All are invited to the funeral service to be conducted at eleven o’clock in the morning on Wednesday, the 4th of November, in the Worship Center of Second Baptist Church, 6400 Woodway Drive in Houston, where Dr. H. Edwin Young, Pastor, is to officiate.

A reception is to immediately follow the service in the adjacent Deacons’ Parlor.

The entombment services are to be privately conducted on the O’Quinn River Ranch in Wimberley, Texas.

For those desiring, contributions in memory of John M. O’Quinn may be directed to the University of Houston John O’Quinn Memorial Fund, University of Houston, Houston, TX, 77204-5016 (please indicate whether you prefer to support the UH Law Center or UH Athletics); The Texas Heart Institute, 6770 Bertner St. (MC3-116), Houston, TX, 77030 (please indicate whether your contribution is designated for Dr. Willerson’s Research or Dr. O.H. Frazier’s Surgical Research); The Children’s Assessment Center, 2500 Bolsover St., Houston, TX, 77005; The Women’s Center, 1010 Waugh Dr., Houston, TX, 77019; or to the John M. O’Quinn Foundation, 3518 Travis St., Suite 200, Houston, TX, 77002.

This lovely obituary was written by ~Gerald Treece~

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11/03/2009 at 5:45 PM

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1 freida1 11/04/2009 at 2:43 AM

“Rare Earth” bound, and determined…

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Batmobile

2 freida1 11/04/2009 at 2:46 AM

You do know what ‘the good book’ says…

Something about rejoicing…

Funerals and passing might not be so sad if only we really, truly believed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZsppOw2Mxk

3 Carole 11/04/2009 at 8:32 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with those who will say farewell to Mr. O’Quinn today.
I will trust and believe that all will be well.

4 missmarple 11/04/2009 at 4:07 PM

I just learned of the passing of this great man and I am in total shock.

Through all these years and all the heartbreak I have believed beyond a doubt that with John O’Quinn by her side Mrs. Arthur would one day find justice for her family and peace for her soul.

My tears are falling for this gentle cowboy who so gallantly protected and defended those who were abused by power, greed and corruption. May he rest gently in the arms of the angels knowing that a trail of tears have followed him home.

Rest in peace John O’Quinn and thank you for a job well done!

5 Carole 11/04/2009 at 5:05 PM

MissMarple, It’s nice to “see”, even under these sad circumstances. The Houston Chronicle has a short clip of the bagpipes playing Danny Boy at his funeral.

http://www.chron.com/news/photogallery/OQuinn_.html

Darla looks lovely, and very fragile.

6 missmarple 11/04/2009 at 5:53 PM

Thank you Carole. Although I have not been posting I have been a frequent visitor of this wonderful site.

QV has been a shelter in the storm and I truly appreciate all who have continued to post with such passion, clarity and determination.

John O’Quinn was an earth angel who most definitively has earned his wings.

7 QV 11/04/2009 at 8:34 PM

Hi missmarple. Nice to see you again but the circumstances are so tragic. Your beautiful words really choked me up. Thanks so much for stopping by.

8 QV 11/04/2009 at 8:36 PM

Thanks for the link Carole. Its hard to watch that. The Chronicle said there were thousands mourning today. I bet even more than they realize. The flowers were very beautiful.

9 missmarple 11/04/2009 at 11:47 PM

Thank you QV – I am a frequent visitor who appreciates all the work you have undertaken on our behalf.

I can not believe how deeply his passing has affected me. I am beyond sad.

10 QV 11/04/2009 at 11:57 PM

missmarple, so many share your grief for a man who stepped up to take care of a mother and grandmother who was getting run over by the legal system. I am so grateful for all Mr. O’Quinn was and for all he did. Many of us have been in tears for days. I’m happy we can take comfort in knowing that this wonderful man is safe in the arms of our Lord.
I appreciate your kind words. Thank you so very much.

11 freida1 11/05/2009 at 3:58 AM

At least for now (this day in time)…I can search for ’stuff’ relatively free, as long as Time Warner gets paid…

http://www.quotesdaddy.com/author/Gerald+Treece

12 freida1 11/05/2009 at 4:09 AM

Of course, then I thought again, and that reminded me of a song…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Hdx9JjzDfo

I almost feel like ‘family’ here.

Thanks, QV!!!

Good Grief.

13 freida1 11/05/2009 at 4:13 AM

Another ‘car man’…wouldn’t you know it…

Only thing is, I like boats, too!!!

14 freida1 11/05/2009 at 5:45 AM

Really what could be better than a long winter’s nap?

All ‘this’ behind us, no worry, no more…absolute bliss.

And, to think we’ll all eventually know it even if it’s not.

Absolute Perfection.

15 freida1 11/09/2009 at 2:41 AM

“…Carol O’Quinn, his extended famil, as well as many dear friends.”

FAMILY WITH A ‘Y.’

16 freida1 11/12/2009 at 12:07 AM

Hi QV,
I noticed you didn’t do anything special here for Vet’s day…

There’s all kinds of wars and demons to fight .

Might as well believe…’cause nobody knows!!!

Yet, so many ‘think.’

17 freida1 11/12/2009 at 12:10 AM

“Believe It Or Not”…

I actually made some rather ‘bland’ shrimp cakes today!!!!

18 QV 11/12/2009 at 12:24 AM

Freida, you got me there. I didn’t even realize what day it is. I am busy building a dog house for the feral kitties around here and trying to beat the weather. Its really getting cold and I still have a lot to do. We should all be thankful to our vets. And it might sound bad to say but I don’t think they are treated well enough. Thinking that especially after some so called soldiers tortured my daughters friend until he killed himself in Iraq. He was a very sweet boy too. I would like to see more done for our soldiers. Better benefits. So many are coming home with PTSD which leads into alcoholism and drug addiction due to lack of proper support. God bless our soldiers and veterans. Thanks for reminding me Freida.

19 QV 11/12/2009 at 12:27 AM

Man, get some hot sauce and pour it on those shrimp cakes. I heard spicy foods help raise your metabolism :-)

20 freida1 11/13/2009 at 1:24 AM

Good luck with the ‘cat house,’ lol!

(Just had to come back here, and type that.)

Kinda’ like adding spice.

21 QV 11/13/2009 at 12:15 PM

Hi Frieda. Lol, I know what you mean. Every time I said “cat house” to my parents, my step-mom cracked up laughing. :-)

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